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Wed, 19 Jun 2013 21:29:49 -0500

MY SISTER IN 6TH GRADE AND NOW IN 8TH GRADE OMG IM LAUGHING

Wed, 19 Jun 2013 18:59:44 -0500

MY SISTER IN 6TH GRADE AND NOW IN 8TH GRADE OMG IM LAUGHING

Françoise Hardy - Paris, May 1962

Wed, 19 Jun 2013 18:33:38 -0500

Françoise Hardy - Paris, May 1962

Viewer Discretion Is Advised No. 2

Wed, 19 Jun 2013 17:20:27 -0500

Viewer Discretion Is Advised No. 2

isn’t it upsetting that your future husband is literally alive right now but you just don’t know...

Wed, 19 Jun 2013 16:46:41 -0500

isn’t it upsetting that your future husband is literally alive right now but you just don’t know who he is he could be with a STUPID GIRLFRIENdG ET AWAY FRO YM HUSSBNAD

tbh when I haven't been on Tumblr in a while, I always scroll through your blog and try not to like/reblog everything bc it's all perfect perfect perfect

Wed, 19 Jun 2013 16:45:00 -0500

omaskdj you’re my actual favorite this made me heart SWELL thank u so much wow!!

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Wed, 19 Jun 2013 14:55:29 -0500

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Wed, 19 Jun 2013 02:09:03 -0500

oh my f uc kig god i was scrolling through this girl’s...

Wed, 19 Jun 2013 01:47:00 -0500

oh my f uc kig god i was scrolling through this girl’s old videos and i saw this one like “harry styles - if we were a movie” and i was like wow this has GOT to be the dumbest one she’s made but i watched it anyway bc why not i’m a loser and hol y mother i dk why but it made me feel some type of way like i’m breathing HEAVILY !!!! I’M GONNA HAVE DREAMS ABOUT THIS frick u forreal hair styel

on that note……….good...

Wed, 19 Jun 2013 01:37:23 -0500

on that note……….good night…………..

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Wed, 19 Jun 2013 01:05:06 -0500

zaynganjavadd:

Wed, 19 Jun 2013 01:03:31 -0500

zaynganjavadd:

I FOUND THIS PACKAGE FROM MARY ANN ON MY DESK WHEN I GOT BACK...

Wed, 19 Jun 2013 00:00:52 -0500

I FOUND THIS PACKAGE FROM MARY ANN ON MY DESK WHEN I GOT BACK FROM WORK omg I love her so much this is the greatest thing in the world DO U SEE THAT STRAWBERRY GROW KIT AND YA FICTION I’m overwhelmed !!!!! best friend status GAH I miss her a lot……..

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Tue, 18 Jun 2013 16:31:46 -0500

brokenhalelujah: i want a scene where all the teenagers are discussing the virgins theory with...

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 13:52:51 -0500

brokenhalelujah:

i want a scene where all the teenagers are discussing the virgins theory with chris and stiles says that he’s the only one of them in danger and chris says “and allison” and they all stay silent and chris shoots scott multiple times with normal bullets

“We’re really good at vine.”

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 12:59:09 -0500

_{“We’re really good at vine.”}

"I knew it wasn’t too important, but it made me sad anyway."

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 12:56:00 -0500

“I knew it wasn’t too important, but it made me sad anyway.”

- J.D. Salinger, The Catcher in the Rye

"Great people do things before they’re ready. They do things before they know they can do it. And by..."

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 12:21:07 -0500

“Great people do things before they’re ready. They do things before they know they can do it. And by doing it, they’re proven right. Because, I think there’s something inside of you—and inside of all of us—when we see something and we think, “I think I can do it, I think I can do it. But I’m afraid to.” Bridging that gap, doing what you’re afraid of, getting out of your comfort zone, taking risks like that—THAT is what life is. And I think you might be really good. You might find out something about yourself that’s special. And if you’re not good, who cares? You tried something. Now you know something about yourself. Now you know. A mystery is solved. So, I think you should just give it a try. Just inch yourself out of that back line. Step into life. Courage. Risks. Yes. Go. Now.”

- Amy Poehler

Find What Makes You Happy Do you loathe your own birthday but count down the days to celebrate for...

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 12:10:42 -0500

Find What Makes You Happy

Do you loathe your own birthday but count down the days to celebrate for your roommate’s? Do you cook a flawless dish of chicken parmesan for your partner and tell them you can settle with a bowl of Captain Crunch for dinner? Do you come back from vacation with a bag full of shot glasses for your friends but forget to buy one for yourself?

My whole life I have gone completely out of my way to do things for other people. There has never been a time where I’ve just baked a batch of my favorite white chocolate macadamia nut cookies for myself to merrily munch on. I don’t even save a couple to the side because I feel too guilty when they could be in the happy hands of others. I have this innate desire to do things for everyone else. I am an avid people pleaser.

If this sounds anything like you, you probably can’t remember the last time you did something for yourself or even accept a compliment. When people try to do things for you or offer help, you respond, “No no no! Don’t worry about me. I’m fine…really.” I’ve been in therapy for a while now, and it has always been baffling for me to answer the question, “What makes you happy?” Time after time I have replied, “Well, it makes me happy to see other people happy.” I thought this was a good response. The correct response. Yet my therapist replied, “That’s notreallywhat makes you happy though.”

I thought about what she said for a while. I tried analyzing the last time I did something for someone else. I’ve observed that the key to a guy’s heart is food 9 out of 10 times. Therefore, I did some baking for my friends on the wrestling team and handed them a Tupperware filled with plump peanut butter cookies. They all attacked the box like drunken sailors and my face lit up with a pleasant smile. However after the short animal rage, they kindly thanked me and went back to watching Sports Center. The bliss was over and I was standing there with an empty stomach.

It truly makes me happy to see the smiling faces of other people, especially when those smiles were formed by something I did. But for how long does that happiness actually last? There is that initial feeling of butterflies in your stomach knowing you just made someone’s day a little bit better. When’s the last time you lightened up your own day? When’s the last time you treated yourself to an expensive bottle of wine or an afternoon listening to nothing but your favorite playlist? When’s the last time you asked yourself, “Whatreally makes me happy?”

I think many of us struggle with doing things for ourselves. We tend to put ourselves on the bottom of our priorities pyramid,alwayscoming up with an excuse to put other things and people first. I’ve always thought it was something to be admired for, always doing things for others. Yet I found myself becoming lost. I was at lost for whatever made me happy because I was too busy concentrating on the rest of the world and figuring out what to do for them. I actually felt bad for myself realizing this. Is it honestly that painful for me to just treat myself for once?

Although it’s still a work in progress, I’ve finally decided to start doing things for myself—doing things that sincerely make me happy. Sometimes it involves money, sometimes it doesn’t. It could be buying that expensive silky black dress I saw window shopping, or reserving time on the weekends to go for a walk to my favorite spot in the city. Whatever it is, I’ve been thinking about what I can do to have my mind rest easy and contently. It’s inevitably true that you are in control of your own happiness. I’ve finally posted on the back of my door, “If you want to be happy, be.”

Have you discovered what makes you happy?

By KELCEY ZACARESE

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 10:59:53 -0500